You want something in return, Sweden. I would forgive Liam regardless of an apology because his remorse was apparent, even if he didn't display maturity in taking responsibility initially. I met the guy and he isn't intentionally trying to harm anyone. It boils down to a not-so-well-thought-out decision with good intentions but little to no precautions. A mistake, if you will. Your apologies and attempts to make amends are masqueraded and played up versions of essentially saying (I'm sorry you feel that way). Liam's decision has little to do with who he is as a person, while what you do/have done has everything to do with your personality. You're just not the kind of person that people feel comfortable around here, and an apology doesn't change that. It's easy to forgive a person when what they did is a mistake that isn't going to happen again and isn't a byproduct of the way they treat people.