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Kay, I got a little problem.
« on: June 26, 2013, 10:38 pm »
I have this major crush on a friend of my sister's, but the only problem is our age. I mean, she's 17, and I know she's not a virgin. >.>

Basically I kinda just feel awkward around her, because when we hang out it's usually platonic and just normal shyness, and chatting. I'm not going to ask her out anytime soon, but maybe if I could get some alone time with her and ya know, tell her how I feel, maybe something *magically* would happen?

Any advice, lol. I'm 15 btw. I really like her, and I normally date girls younger than me but I just can't take my eyes off of gwen, I keep mentioning her which goes to show how much I think of her.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2013, 10:40 pm »
I'm really not the person you should be asking all this ben 10 splode
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2013, 10:41 pm »
Does your sister know?

Edit: Sorry XD on my little bro's DS and he was logged in. This is ffk. He knows I'm on.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #3 on: June 26, 2013, 10:43 pm »
I would take a basketball hoop, lower it to eight feet, and dunk right in front of her. That way, it's not obvious that you're hitting on her, and she'll hopefully notice you. I'm not joking or trying to be funny either, I would indirectly impress her (or you could do something less cool :().
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #4 on: June 26, 2013, 10:45 pm »
Does your sister know?

Edit: Sorry XD on my little bro's DS and he was logged in. This is ffk. He knows I'm on.

No, I haven't told anyone, I really can't risk her finding out lol.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #5 on: June 26, 2013, 10:45 pm »
I would take a basketball hoop, lower it to eight feet, and dunk right in front of her. That way, it's not obvious that you're hitting on her, and she'll hopefully notice you. I'm not joking or trying to be funny either, I would indirectly impress her (or you could do something less cool :().
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #6 on: June 26, 2013, 10:47 pm »
I would take a basketball hoop, lower it to eight feet, and dunk right in front of her. That way, it's not obvious that you're hitting on her, and she'll hopefully notice you. I'm not joking or trying to be funny either, I would indirectly impress her (or you could do something less cool :().

lol, I want to impress her and get her attention, but the problem is that I DO have some of her attention, but it's more of a friendly way. I don't want her to see me as some kind of little brother, I mean I'll be honest. I want a relationship with her, not because she's not a virgin or that she's older than me but it's the connection I feel with her, and her voice.

I want to ask her out in a subtle way maybe, like ask her if she's single even though I'm pretty sure she is, just to get the topic of dating out there.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #7 on: June 26, 2013, 10:48 pm »
you're assuming iron got game

1v1 me.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #8 on: June 26, 2013, 10:48 pm »
Invite her over (don't wait for your sister to invite her, invite her yourself), and don't tell your sister, get your sister to go somewhere, and then she'll come home to ya'll splodein on the kitchen table, then they'll both get the vibe.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #9 on: June 26, 2013, 10:50 pm »
lol, I want to impress her and get her attention, but the problem is that I DO have some of her attention, but it's more of a friendly way. I don't want her to see me as some kind of little brother, I mean I'll be honest. I want a relationship with her, not because she's not a virgin or that she's older than me but it's the connection I feel with her, and her voice.

I want to ask her out in a subtle way maybe, like ask her if she's single even though I'm pretty sure she is, just to get the topic of dating out there.
Oh I see, and yes, definitely don't act like a little brother. I wish I could help you, but all I can say is good luck on getting her and I hope she is even better than you had expected.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #10 on: June 26, 2013, 10:51 pm »
Invite her over (don't wait for your sister to invite her, invite her yourself), and don't tell your sister, get your sister to go somewhere, and then she'll come home to ya'll splodein on the kitchen table, then they'll both get the vibe.

Yeah, us splodeing on the table will probably deliver the message that she likes me.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #11 on: June 26, 2013, 10:52 pm »
1v1 me.
will so fly got me thinking I'm mike

gotta be the shoes!!


don't try to impress her like that...I mean, don't make her think you're a fool but, just try to hold a steady relationship with her. be her friend, of course don't go into the friendzone. you have to wait, but just go awhile letting her know that even tho you're younger you're there for her. then just ask her out casually, youknow
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #12 on: June 26, 2013, 10:53 pm »
Oh I see, and yes, definitely don't act like a little brother. I wish I could help you, but all I can say is good luck on getting her and I hope she is even better than you had expected.

xD. I guess I won't ask her out, I mean I don't wanna ruin our friendship lol. Still though, if I ask her out I could just get it out the way and not worry about it.

Too bad I'm not confident enough. lol
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #13 on: June 26, 2013, 10:53 pm »
Yeah, us splodeing on the table will probably deliver the message that she likes me.

Try it out bro.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #14 on: June 26, 2013, 10:55 pm »
will so fly got me thinking I'm mike

gotta be the shoes!!


don't try to impress her like that...I mean, don't make her think you're a fool but, just try to hold a steady relationship with her. be her friend, of course don't go into the friendzone. you have to wait, but just go awhile letting her know that even tho you're younger you're there for her. then just ask her out casually, youknow

lol, I just hope she likes me like that.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #15 on: June 26, 2013, 10:56 pm »
lol, I just hope she likes me like that.
if she doesn't just listen to some tagPeter.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #16 on: June 26, 2013, 10:56 pm »
Too bad I'm not confident enough. lol
To be honest I think that's one of the hardest things to do as a teenager; heck, I could never do it haha.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #17 on: June 26, 2013, 10:57 pm »
I am in no position to say anything other then:

Wait for the age difference to not count.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #18 on: June 26, 2013, 10:58 pm »
I have this major crush on a friend of my sister's, but the only problem is our age. I mean, she's 17, and I know she's not a virgin. >.>

Basically I kinda just feel awkward around her, because when we hang out it's usually platonic and just normal shyness, and chatting. I'm not going to ask her out anytime soon, but maybe if I could get some alone time with her and ya know, tell her how I feel, maybe something *magically* would happen?

Any advice, lol. I'm 15 btw. I really like her, and I normally date girls younger than me but I just can't take my eyes off of gwen, I keep mentioning her which goes to show how much I think of her.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #19 on: June 26, 2013, 10:58 pm »
I've never had to ask a girl out in my life and yet I have about 54
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #20 on: June 26, 2013, 10:59 pm »
One day I could be talking to my sister casually, and then I could be seeing Gwen and I just feel so different, it's like my stomach hurts and splode, and I stutter.
She is nice though, and we have a lot of fun together (or used to when I wasn't as badly crushing on her) but now I'm just making mistakes when I'm with her because I'm so damn shy and nervous.

It's like my voice stutters when I'm with her, and I start moving around LOL. She constantly tells me things about her, and sometimes she would just play around and joke. I honestly never know what to say when I'm with her, and when I do it comes off as a low voice and just quiet... I'm only quiet with people I have no interest in talking with, and those I have the strongest feelings for.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #21 on: June 26, 2013, 10:59 pm »
Yeah... Can't help you here. Sorry.

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #22 on: June 26, 2013, 11:00 pm »
I have this major crush on a friend of my sister's, but the only problem is our age. I mean, she's 17, and I know she's not a virgin. >.>

Basically I kinda just feel awkward around her, because when we hang out it's usually platonic and just normal shyness, and chatting. I'm not going to ask her out anytime soon, but maybe if I could get some alone time with her and ya know, tell her how I feel, maybe something *magically* would happen?

Any advice, lol. I'm 15 btw. I really like her, and I normally date girls younger than me but I just can't take my eyes off of gwen, I keep mentioning her which goes to show how much I think of her.

Well, you spammed my thread with bad language and toilet talk, so im not gonna help you.
I would if you were my friend, but you spammed my thread.
Although... I'd have to think about it.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #23 on: June 26, 2013, 11:01 pm »
To be honest I think that's one of the hardest things to do as a teenager; heck, I could never do it haha.

lol, this was even back in the 3rd grade when I had my first crush on a girl from the 4th grade, I just ended up running away from her while my friends all pushed her towards me. LOL
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #24 on: June 26, 2013, 11:02 pm »
in a random conversation

"I really like you..."

then look at the floor for a few seconds
Well, you spammed my thread with bad language and toilet talk, so im not gonna help you.
I would if you were my friend, but you spammed my thread.
Although... I'd have to think about it.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #25 on: June 26, 2013, 11:04 pm »
in a random conversation

"I really like you..."

then look at the floor for a few seconds no one wants you here jacc 

SEE I can't do that, lol. I mean, I just can't do that with a girl. Gah, I need some guts. I need to say it already, and I feel like such a wimp that I'm 15 years old, and I still need advice to tell this girl how I feel about her.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #26 on: June 26, 2013, 11:06 pm »
As far as asking out goes, my policy is usually to only ask them out once I'm nearly positive they'll say yes. It's taken my whole goddang life to learn this as every girl (except for one girl yesterday, who finally said yes <3) has rejected me. Just take it slow, learn her more, bond with her.
As far as mannerisms go, I don't have much advice. What I usually tell people is to just act like they're your friend, that you know them well. I know how hard it is to not be shy around crushes, though.

All I can really say is good luck man! I really hope stuff works out for you two. I'll be rooting for ya!

EDIT: Also, don't worry about age, the girl I'm currently dating is in the grade above me.
« Last Edit: June 26, 2013, 11:08 pm by Elroy »
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #27 on: June 26, 2013, 11:07 pm »
SEE I can't do that, lol. I mean, I just can't do that with a girl. Gah, I need some guts. I need to say it already, and I feel like such a wimp that I'm 15 years old, and I still need advice to tell this girl how I feel about her.
If you can't bring yourself to ask her seriously you can just say it jokingly and see what she says like.

"Hey I have a great idea!"
"What?"
"Go out with me"*smile*

or just msg/text her online and be like, you should go out with me lol

That way, if you get rejected, you can pass it off as a joke. :3



 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #28 on: June 26, 2013, 11:08 pm »
^^ would respect your opinion more if you didn't use that gayboy :3 emoticon
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #29 on: June 26, 2013, 11:09 pm »
Yeah, us splodeing on the table will probably deliver the message that she likes me.


Here's some advice that might probably help.

1. When you see her, say "Hello".

2. If she looks at you in a nice way, she might like you.

3. Accidently - Cut her off (By cut her off, i mean just walk in front of her, make it look like an accident so she thinks it was an accident, and not on purpose).

Try these. If these dont work, think of an idea.

Do not use offense.
« Last Edit: June 26, 2013, 11:18 pm by YourFriendlyGuy »
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