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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #30 on: June 26, 2013, 11:12 pm »
Dont mind what kylepeanut said.
Here's some advice that might probably help.

1. When you see her, say "Hello".

2. If she looks at you in a nice way, she might like you.

3. Accidently - Cut her off (By cut her off, i mean just walk in front of her, make it look like an accident so she thinks it was an accident, and not on purpose).

Try these. If these dont work, think of an idea.

Do not use offense.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #31 on: June 26, 2013, 11:12 pm »
As far as asking out goes, my policy is usually to only ask them out once I'm nearly positive they'll say yes. It's taken my whole goddang life to learn this as every girl (except for one girl yesterday, who finally said yes <3) has rejected me. Just take it slow, learn her more, bond with her.
As far as mannerisms go, I don't have much advice. What I usually tell people is to just act like they're your friend, that you know them well. I know how hard it is to not be shy around crushes, though.

All I can really say is good luck man! I really hope stuff works out for you two. I'll be rooting for ya!

Congrats on the girl who said yes to you yesterdai xD

Yeah we spend some time together when she's around, and at times she just shares with me stuff about her. Like, not secrets or anything, but not something you'd tell just any random guy. I'm probably friendzoned at the moment. She didn't really show any signs of flirting, except she would hang out a lot and just be herself. That's why I respect her, lol. She is usually rude to other guys but when to me she's friendly, but not flirting, mostly some playing around.

I might text her saying and start to "flirt" a little, nothing big but just a couple of flirting messages. Then this could allow her to "get the signal" and just talk to me about it, then she could know what to expect from me and I wouldn't be so nervous.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #32 on: June 26, 2013, 11:13 pm »
in a random conversation

"I really like you..."

then look at the floor for a few seconds no one wants you here jacc 
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #33 on: June 26, 2013, 11:13 pm »
Dont mind what kylepeanut said.
Here's some advice that might probably help.

1. When you see her, say "Hello".

2. If she looks at you in a nice way, she might like you.

3. Accidently - Cut her off (By cut her off, i mean just walk in front of her, make it look like an accident so she thinks it was an accident, and not on purpose).

Try these. If these dont work, think of an idea.

Do not use offense.

I was joking. T^T

As far as asking out goes, my policy is usually to only ask them out once I'm nearly positive they'll say yes. It's taken my whole goddang life to learn this as every girl (except for one girl yesterday, who finally said yes <3) has rejected me. Just take it slow, learn her more, bond with her.
As far as mannerisms go, I don't have much advice. What I usually tell people is to just act like they're your friend, that you know them well. I know how hard it is to not be shy around crushes, though.

All I can really say is good luck man! I really hope stuff works out for you two. I'll be rooting for ya!

EDIT: Also, don't worry about age, the girl I'm currently dating is in the grade above me.

I was dating someone earlier this year who was in 10th grade. I was in 7th lol.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #34 on: June 26, 2013, 11:13 pm »
^^ would respect your opinion more if you didn't use that gayboy :3 emoticon
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #35 on: June 26, 2013, 11:14 pm »
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #36 on: June 26, 2013, 11:14 pm »
You know, you can L.E.A.V.E   M.E   A.L.O.N.E.
I already helped him.
sorry jacc.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #37 on: June 26, 2013, 11:14 pm »
I was joking. T^T

I was dating someone earlier this year who was in 10th grade. I was in 7th lol.

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #38 on: June 26, 2013, 11:14 pm »
Well, you could always knock her out and have your way with he- I've got nothing.

Just tell her how you feel, I guess. (Even though I never had the balls to ask any girl out, but I have faith in you. xP)



 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #39 on: June 26, 2013, 11:15 pm »
sorry jacc.

What do you mean by sorry? You started it.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #40 on: June 26, 2013, 11:15 pm »
I might text her saying and start to "flirt" a little, nothing big but just a couple of flirting messages. Then this could allow her to "get the signal" and just talk to me about it, then she could know what to expect from me and I wouldn't be so nervous.
Yeah, I've learned that sometimes things get more casual once the secret is out. On the other hand though, sometimes it makes it more awkward. It's a gamble.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #41 on: June 26, 2013, 11:17 pm »
What do you mean by sorry? You started it.
and so I apoligized.

this kid.

I'm taking the apology back jacc
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #42 on: June 26, 2013, 11:17 pm »
Buss down thotiana
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #43 on: June 26, 2013, 11:18 pm »
Well, you could always knock her out and have your way with he- I've got nothing.

Just tell her how you feel, I guess. (Even though I never had the balls to ask any girl out, but I have faith in you. xP)

lol agh, well.

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #44 on: June 26, 2013, 11:19 pm »
nothing like getting advice from a room full of dudes
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #45 on: June 26, 2013, 11:20 pm »
and so I apoligized.

this kid.

I'm taking the apology back jacc

Would you kindly stop calling me jacc?
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #46 on: June 26, 2013, 11:22 pm »
Would you kindly stop calling me jacc?
no jacc
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #47 on: June 26, 2013, 11:22 pm »
Would you kindly stop calling me jacc?
I'll make sure he doesn't do it again, jacc



 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #48 on: June 26, 2013, 11:23 pm »
Yeah, Charis, 'cause no girls online can help. :P

Yeah, never been asked out irl in a serious manner... so...
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #49 on: June 26, 2013, 11:25 pm »
It boils down to this: Get some chutzpah and tell her how you feel, and let fate decide what happens. If she's not interested, she's not interested. The best thing you can do is be direct. The worst thing you can do is keep it bottled up, if you know it's bothering you. If you can't do that, you're basically wasting your time in asking for advice.

To be honest, this is probably just puppy love. I've been there too. I'm not going to sugar coat it and say that "magic will happen" and you'll be "together forever," but if you want to tell her how you feel, do it straight up, because who knows what could happen?

I know what it's like to be shy and awkward around girls, because I've been there myself... A lot. Lol.

I don't usually give advice, but that's the realest advice I have ever given, lol.
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #50 on: June 26, 2013, 11:25 pm »
Yeah, Charis, 'cause no girls online can help. :P

Yeah, never been asked out irl in a serious manner... so...
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #51 on: June 26, 2013, 11:27 pm »
Exactly xD

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #52 on: June 26, 2013, 11:28 pm »
Give me her digits, iron. I'll talk to her for you.

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #53 on: June 26, 2013, 11:30 pm »
no jacc

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #54 on: June 26, 2013, 11:32 pm »
It boils down to this: Get some chutzpah and tell her how you feel, and let fate decide what happens. If she's not interested, she's not interested. The best thing you can do is be direct. The worst thing you can do is keep it bottled up, if you know it's bothering you. If you can't do that, you're basically wasting your time in asking for advice.

To be honest, this is probably just puppy love. I've been there too. I'm not going to sugar coat it and say that "magic will happen" and you'll be "together forever," but if you want to tell her how you feel, do it straight up, because who knows what could happen?

I know what it's like to be shy and awkward around girls, because I've been there myself... A lot. Lol.

I don't usually give advice, but that's the realest advice I have ever given, lol.

I might just talk to her much more than I used to, and just use the time to get to know each other more and see if we can really connect.
In fact, I may even ask her out to go somewhere alone with me, or just give us a chance to talk with privacy.
When we sit together, she occasionally talks to me and smiles at me about random things, and omg this smile is beautiful. She fist bumps me, and just tells me I'm a good guy.

I don't know if that's a signal for ME, or what it is, lol. I keep trying to investigate any signals she might have been giving me, because what if she likes me and is in the same position as me right now? This would make things MUCH easier, lol. I just want to know though, so then I could ACTUALLY ask her out and get this over with.

You know what, lol, I definitely might spend some more time with her and pass of some signals the first couple days, and then just ask her out.

Who knows man, Idk if she's interested or not, but I definitely need to try for that splode winning.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #55 on: June 26, 2013, 11:33 pm »
YourFriendlyGuy,

that was spamming.

Using 3 !'s would've been enough.

Just giving him a taste of his own medicine

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #56 on: June 26, 2013, 11:33 pm »
Give me her digits, iron. I'll talk to her for you.

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LOL I don't like when other people say stuff for me though wtf, she's going to think I'm a wimp who has to have someone TELL her for me. xD

She's older than me, so my goal is to act older.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #57 on: June 26, 2013, 11:33 pm »
LOL I don't like when other people say stuff for me though wtf, she's going to think I'm a wimp who has to have someone TELL her for me. xD

She's older than me, so my goal is to act older.
maybe she's a cougar.
 

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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #58 on: June 26, 2013, 11:35 pm »
YourFriendlyGuy,

that was spamming.

Using 3 !'s would've been enough.

Just giving him a taste of his own medicine

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Sorry, and are you a moderator? Because of not then why should i listen to you?
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Re: Kay, I got a little problem.
« Reply #59 on: June 26, 2013, 11:36 pm »
YourFriendlyGuy,

that was spamming.

Using 3 !'s would've been enough.

Just giving him a taste of his own medicine

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I saw your text, im reporting you for insult. Or is it?
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