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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #90 on: April 21, 2013, 05:06 am »
Lol o.O

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #91 on: April 21, 2013, 04:59 pm »
Okay... Back on topic? Any more suggestions? I pretty much done what you guys said already.

Though, this week she's been going through a rough patch and we've been pretty distant because of this. :/ I try talk to her but it lasts no more than 3 minutes.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #92 on: April 22, 2013, 05:17 am »
Well, I like to say thanks to those who offered some advice and help. I appreciate it.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #93 on: April 22, 2013, 01:48 pm »
I honestly have no more help I can give. Being depressed can be the splodeiest state you can find yourself in, but the best cure for it is usually compassion. Someone who can dig you out of the hole slowly by making lifting you up little at a time.

To me, you seem like that guy. So keep doing what you're doing, and whatever happens don't stop letting her know you're there.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #94 on: April 22, 2013, 06:19 pm »
I honestly have no more help I can give. Being depressed can be the splodeiest state you can find yourself in, but the best cure for it is usually compassion. Someone who can dig you out of the hole slowly by making lifting you up little at a time.

To me, you seem like that guy. So keep doing what you're doing, and whatever happens don't stop letting her know you're there.
Thanks. And, I will. She told me she isn't used to being loved, and I told her to get used to it. I'm not going to treat her like her ex-girlfriends did nor am I going to treat her how society treats her. She needs to be cared for and I care for her so much. I'm seeing her this Saturday hopefully so I'll buy her a gift and give her a big cuddle. She needs it.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #95 on: April 24, 2013, 12:38 am »
Found out today she was in hospital for self harm... Again.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #96 on: April 24, 2013, 12:55 am »
If she's not listening, she's not going to (most likely). She doesn't seem to care enough about you to save you the pain of knowing that she's in the hospital. Honestly, she's being very selfish. Why should you have to suffer? You continuously offer your feelings, help, and kindness to her, but she rejects all of these. Of course you want to help her, but if you can't, why cause yourself to feel pain?

In my opinion, having dealt with situations such as this one, you need to tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her that you care about her, but she needs to "man up" and stand up to her bullies. Even if she's frail, there are ways to deal with them. Then tell her that while you care, her depression is affecting you negatively. She needs to understand that you are giving up your time, feelings, and energy in order to help her. She also needs to understand that if she isn't willing to listen to what you say, then you can't help her.

She probably has a chance to recover, but being soft and caring all the time usually doesn't work. You need to open her eyes to the real world; her depression is messing with other people's lives. Of course you need to do this in a way that she won't go jump out of a window, but you definitely still need to be hard on her. Tough love.
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #97 on: April 24, 2013, 04:58 am »
Yes, that I will do. I did tell her, but obviously I haven't been firm enough.

Thanks, Emp.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #98 on: April 24, 2013, 05:09 am »
Woke up yesterday to a suicide letter she texted me. I was freaking out, trying to call and text her all yesterday. She.luckily didn't. It gave me such a scare, but all week she's been bullied really bad and she couldn't take it. She decided not to because she couldn't bare doing it to me. :/

She says I make her happy and her inspiration, but I can't believe she was almost taken out of my life already.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #99 on: April 24, 2013, 05:10 am »
Haven't read all the messages but here's what I would do in your shoe. Give her support... say words which will give her hope... try to understand her and offer help. If she doesn't listen or doesn't care about anything that you do.. just say that you love her and you'll be there no matter what and accept the reality that you couldn't do anything else to change the situation. but help her lift her hopes in living because in the end it's up to her... just hope for the best and have a positive mindset throughout the situation...

I hope everything will be fine.. good luck and good job helping and caring for her
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #100 on: April 24, 2013, 05:11 am »

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #101 on: April 24, 2013, 05:13 am »
Haven't read all the messages but here's what I would do in your shoe. Give her support... say words which will give her hope... try to understand her and offer help. If she doesn't listen or doesn't care about anything that you do.. just say that you love her and you'll be there no matter what and accept the reality that you couldn't do anything else to change the situation. but help her lift her hopes in living because in the end it's up to her... just hope for the best and have a positive mindset throughout the situation...

I hope everything will be fine.. good luck and good job helping and caring for her
okay and thanks

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #102 on: April 24, 2013, 05:14 am »


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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #103 on: April 24, 2013, 05:14 am »
splode you, needle prick.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #104 on: April 24, 2013, 05:16 am »

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #105 on: April 24, 2013, 05:17 am »

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #106 on: April 24, 2013, 05:20 am »
WTF Proxy...

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #108 on: April 24, 2013, 05:24 am »
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #110 on: April 24, 2013, 05:27 am »
I will never see that day lol

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #111 on: April 24, 2013, 05:27 am »
Sorry.  geez...
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #112 on: April 24, 2013, 05:41 am »
Yeah.

This is a serious thread.

You can happily joke on my others.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #113 on: April 24, 2013, 06:46 am »
Yes, that I will do. I did tell her, but obviously I haven't been firm enough.

Thanks, Emp.
read all 4 pages, couldnt think of anything to add, good luck man
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #114 on: April 24, 2013, 06:52 pm »
read all 4 pages, couldnt think of anything to add, good luck man
Wow... That was a lot of reading.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #115 on: April 25, 2013, 04:05 am »
Wow... That was a lot of reading.

Thanks, dude.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #116 on: April 25, 2013, 04:09 am »
Seeing her on Saturday.

Pretty nervous.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #117 on: April 25, 2013, 04:15 am »
Seeing her on Saturday.

Pretty nervous.
THEN STOP BEING NERVOUS lol IF YOU ARE NERVOUS THEN YOU WILL MAKE HER NERVOUS AND THEN BOTH OF YOU ARE NERVOUS AND NO ONE IS THERE THAT IS NOT NERVOUS TO CALM YOU GUYS DOWN AND THEN IT ALL GOES TO SPLODE FROM THERE be cool man be cool
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #118 on: April 25, 2013, 04:31 am »
You scaring me.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #119 on: April 26, 2013, 06:07 pm »
Seeing her on Saturday.

Pretty nervous.
Is she still in the hospital?
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