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So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« on: April 20, 2013, 01:31 am »
Woke up yesterday to a suicide letter she texted me. I was freaking out, trying to call and text her all yesterday. She.luckily didn't. It gave me such a scare, but all week she's been bullied really bad and she couldn't take it. She decided not to because she couldn't bare doing it to me. :/

She says I make her happy and her inspiration, but I can't believe she was almost taken out of my life already.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #1 on: April 20, 2013, 01:41 am »
Woke up yesterday to a suicide letter she texted me. I was freaking out, trying to call and text her all yesterday. She.luckily didn't. It gave me such a scare, but all week she's been bullied really bad and she couldn't take it. She decided not to because she couldn't bare doing it to me. :/

She says I make her happy and her inspiration, but I can't believe she was almost taken out of my life already.
Why she bullied?
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #2 on: April 20, 2013, 01:48 am »
Tell whoever bullies to her to splode off, and keep making her happy.



 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #3 on: April 20, 2013, 01:50 am »
Tell whoever bullies to her to splode off, and keep making her happy.
Well said.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #4 on: April 20, 2013, 01:50 am »
What do you expect us to do about it?
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #5 on: April 20, 2013, 01:50 am »
The thing is, even though we live in the same area, she goes to a different school. She doesn't tell me who or why she's getting bullied and it worries me.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #6 on: April 20, 2013, 01:51 am »
What do you expect us to do about it?
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #7 on: April 20, 2013, 01:53 am »
Thanks, swallow. Thanks.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #8 on: April 20, 2013, 01:53 am »
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #9 on: April 20, 2013, 01:55 am »
What do you expect us to do about it?

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #10 on: April 20, 2013, 01:55 am »
Would you like a medal for that?
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #11 on: April 20, 2013, 01:57 am »
What do you expect us to do about it?
You're a splode.



 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #12 on: April 20, 2013, 01:58 am »
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2013, 01:58 am »
I try to help her, try my hardest. But, since she suffers from depression and trust issues, it's hard.

Next time I see her, I'm going to give her a big hug and kiss and tell her how much I care and love her, and how I would hate to lose her and how she means the workd to me.

Suicide is serious, and I don't want her family and friends hurt.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #14 on: April 20, 2013, 01:59 am »
I try to help her, try my hardest. But, since she suffers from depression and trust issues, it's hard.

Next time I see her, I'm going to give her a big hug and kiss and tell her how much I care and love her, and how I would hate to lose her and how she means the workd to me.

Suicide is serious, and I don't want her family and friends hurt.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #15 on: April 20, 2013, 02:02 am »
She underestimates herself, but she is so talented and smart.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #16 on: April 20, 2013, 02:09 am »
She underestimates herself, but she is so talented and smart.
Tell her that too.
And when you tell her, explain to her that she shouldn'tk listen to other people who bully her and don't care for her. Tell her whats important is caring for the people who love and care for her because they are the ones that see how beautiful, smart, talented, etc that she is. And thats whats important in life.







 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #17 on: April 20, 2013, 02:16 am »
Tell her that too.
And when you tell her, explain to her that she shouldn'tk listen to other people who bully her and don't care for her. Tell her whats important is caring for the people who love and care for her because they are the ones that see how beautiful, smart, talented, etc that she is. And thats whats important in life.
I do. All the time. :/

But, when I tell her, it's 'awww' but then a negative comment about herself. But, then I tell her I'm not lying and it's the truth and then she says thanks.

The text, her last message she was going to tell anyone was an apology to me about how she is sorry she us a bad girlfriend, that she is sorry she doesn't talk to me much, and that she is ugly etc so in the morning panicking I told her that she isn't, she is my angel, she is beautiful, how lucky I am to have her and how proud I am of her etc

She's accomplished a lot like she's eating better and threw away her blades because she did it for me.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #18 on: April 20, 2013, 02:17 am »
I do. All the time. :/

But, when I tell her, it's 'awww' but then a negative comment about herself. But, then I tell her I'm not lying and it's the truth and then she says thanks.

The text, her last message she was going to tell anyone was an apology to me about how she is sorry she us a bad girlfriend, that she is sorry she doesn't talk to me much, and that she is ugly etc so in the morning panicking I told her that she isn't, she is my angel, she is beautiful, how lucky I am to have her and how proud I am of her etc

She's accomplished a lot like she's eating better and threw away her blades because she did it for me.
In proud of both of you.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #19 on: April 20, 2013, 02:19 am »
I'm going to continue to help her.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #20 on: April 20, 2013, 02:20 am »
I'm going to continue to help her.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #21 on: April 20, 2013, 02:21 am »
I'm going to continue to help her.

Convince her she isn't ugly etc, prove it to her
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #22 on: April 20, 2013, 02:25 am »
But how? She's so beautiful but she doubts herself

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #23 on: April 20, 2013, 02:26 am »
But how? She's so beautiful but she doubts herself
You could compare her to other people maybe.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #24 on: April 20, 2013, 02:26 am »
What do you expect us to do about it?

I respect you just like I respect everyone here but to me this statement is out of line. Saying nothing at all would have been better. Sure, there's nothing we can physically do in this case, but the least we can do is offer suggestions or at the very least acknowledge that this venting process of letting this out is a healthy form of expressing initial thoughts that may be difficult to do in a face to face manner. I see a lot of people make these comments and I dont understand because we have grown a community here and a lot of people feel comfortable letting their emotions out here as a starting point.

And if you want to talk about the situation you can private message me. I can try to offer help if you wish I just dont like saying it in public.
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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #25 on: April 20, 2013, 02:27 am »
But how? She's so beautiful but she doubts herself

Do something for her keep telling her like you do, that's all I can think of for now.  :( Hope she stops doubting herself soon.
 

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #26 on: April 20, 2013, 02:32 am »
You could compare her to other people maybe.
i don't want to compare her to my ex's because she's better than them and nothing near them.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #27 on: April 20, 2013, 02:34 am »
I respect you just like I respect everyone here but to me this statement is out of line. Saying nothing at all would have been better. Sure, there's nothing we can physically do in this case, but the least we can do is offer suggestions or at the very least acknowledge that this venting process of letting this out is a healthy form of expressing initial thoughts that may be difficult to do in a face to face manner. I see a lot of people make these comments and I dont understand because we have grown a community here and a lot of people feel comfortable letting their emotions out here as a starting point.

And if you want to talk about the situation you can private message me. I can try to offer help if you wish I just dont like saying it in public.
Thanks, bro I appreciate it. :)

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #28 on: April 20, 2013, 02:34 am »
Do something for her keep telling her like you do, that's all I can think of for now.  :( Hope she stops doubting herself soon.
same here.

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Re: So, my girlfriend almost committed suicide a night ago
« Reply #29 on: April 20, 2013, 02:35 am »
Does she go to an all girls school or do you go to an all boys school? If you go to a unisex school she could move...

You're quite lucky tbh.