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Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« on: February 22, 2013, 10:04 pm »
Me and my mother have been really silent to each other.
Which is messed up since we're both talkitive and she's the only other person in the house.
I don't know if I need to take a break from the internet or not.
But we got into a argument with one another last night
and i'm pretty ashamed to say this but I cried myself to sleep.
We've barely said a word today.
I don't know what to do.
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2013, 10:05 pm »
Just start talking to her.
That will stop the problem of you not talking to her.
 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2013, 10:07 pm »
Aww D:

 I'm bad at stuff like this... so xP
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2013, 10:09 pm »
If anyone is going to take this thread as a joke, it's not.
Just start talking to her.
That will stop the problem of you not talking to her.
Idk, I did the dishes and told her.
I just got a very, very, silent, "Ok".
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2013, 10:11 pm »
If anyone is going to take this thread as a joke, it's not.Idk, I did the dishes and told her.
I just got a very, very, silent, "Ok".
then have a full conversation, stray asking her questions like how was your day? Are you feeling ok and stuff like that.
 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2013, 10:11 pm »
um..... I have no idea.



 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2013, 10:12 pm »
Start talking to her, if you talk, things will start getting back to normal. =)



 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #7 on: February 22, 2013, 10:12 pm »
It'll likely be short-lived. Just be patient and allow some time to bury the tension between you and your mother.
 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2013, 10:13 pm »
Yeah, I think I sort of understand your situation. Like, you've forgiven her, but you still are a bit unwilling to talk, finding it even a bit awkward, right..? If that's the case, I understand it's pretty uncomfortable, and i'll point you to God to help you with these issues, through prayer etc.

But, if you decline that, my best advice is to either start talking to her straight up, saying that you forgive her, or wait a little while until the leftover emotional scars of the fight wear away, and when the atmosphere is more relaxed. I understand you feel a bit empty, right..? Just... Sort of lost, I guess you can describe the feeling? If you'd like to continue this in a private message, feel free to, but there's my advice for now. c:
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2013, 10:13 pm »
I think you need to take a break. It will not do any harm and sometimes will solve your problems, so why not do it?
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2013, 10:14 pm »
um..... I have no idea.
-.-
Do you even know how upset I am?
then have a full conversation, stray asking her questions like how was your day? Are you feeling ok and stuff like that.
I'm very afraid to though.
Like I might get yelled at or looked at weird.
It'll likely be short-lived. Just be patient and allow some time to bury the tension between you and your mother.
That's what i've been doing,
I will be going to bed soon, hopefully tomorrow will be better.
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2013, 10:15 pm »
Yeah, I think I sort of understand your situation. Like, you've forgiven her, but you still are a bit unwilling to talk, finding it even a bit awkward, right..? If that's the case, I understand it's pretty uncomfortable, and i'll point you to God to help you with these issues, through prayer etc.

But, if you decline that, my best advice is to either start talking to her straight up, saying that you forgive her, or wait a little while until the leftover emotional scars of the fight wear away, and when the atmosphere is more relaxed. I understand you feel a bit empty, right..? Just... Sort of lost, I guess you can describe the feeling? If you'd like to continue this in a private message, feel free to, but there's my advice for now. c:
You are probably the most understanding person i've ever seen.
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #12 on: February 22, 2013, 10:16 pm »
Aww, Chim...

 If you wanna talk, just PM me xP
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #13 on: February 22, 2013, 10:19 pm »
what was the argument about? try to apologize to her even if you aren't sorry
 

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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #14 on: February 22, 2013, 11:40 pm »
So like
she came home with some firewood
and we started a fire
and so we were sitting by it in silence
so went over to her and hugged her and then we looked at each other.

Silent forgiveness.

Now we're talking and it's back to normal, everythings ok now. c:
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #15 on: February 22, 2013, 11:44 pm »
c:
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Re: Mmk I Need Some Life Advice
« Reply #16 on: February 22, 2013, 11:51 pm »
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